There are some people who just provoke positive vibes out of a person, ANY person… and Aisha` is one of those influencers who always lets the impeccability of her demeanor be her advocate.
My reputation on IRC for being a troll precedes me and may be my excitable modus operandi has something to do with it… but there are a couple of people who can be utterly, brutally offensive and yet I do not respond with any form of hostility whatsoever. Aisha has been one of those persons who, at times, has been extremely cut-throat but I just could NOT bring myself to be disrespectful towards her, never had an emotional meltdown. She just wasn’t a person I could be mean to. Not because of any baser sentimentality…but because I found her so much better than myself… because I respect her so much.. mostly because her character COMMANDS this lenity!
From lowest of lows to the absolute crescendo of her personal life (her marriage last week), Aisha’s journey is eventful, a tale of perseverance. You would read her own account of all those events in this interview, but to give this article a perspective, I would furnish that Aisha has had an eventful life; she is a suicide survivor… an act she attempted as a consequence of her dropping out of her LL.B in final semester.
However, this tale is not about her failures… this is about how she responded to all the adversity in her life. She can’t be judged for her failure to complete her LLB and in-turn her decision to end her life, but she should rather be judged for being morally one of the most impeccable women you will ever meet. This is the best part about Aisha, that she simply did NOT let herself go. In times of despair, up to the point where one decides to take its own life, its very convenient to get detracted and go through a path of self-destructive and implosive pattern… most of us do. If I may speak personally, I have been through such testing times and I found them very challenging, made a lot of stupid mistakes but this woman has been impeccable; she didn’t make mistakes, she kept her honor in times where preserving your moral compass becomes the greatest predicament.
Aisha rose from the embers of her failure, like a phoenix. All the details cannot be furnished here but it should suffice to say that from a life which was forfeited, Aisha has navigated herself out of the woods.
On March, 2021.. Aisha said her good byes to a very emotional audience of #bahawalpur; in wake of her marriage which successfully took place last week. The phoenix had finally risen from the ashes of despair, and torment.. and she flew away, never to return.. she flew towards her new life… leaving a host admirers and well wishers in her wake…
Aisha, I don’t know where you are right now, but I know this article will find you and I am talking to you, sugar: You have been one of the BEST persons I have met on IRC. This crappy social platform was a far better place with you around and I wish you all the best in your new life. I can’t even process how the experience must’ve felt like to you, which compelled you to attempt a suicide… but have faith, that people like yourself, who powered back from a long dark nightmare, are WINNERS… you deserved a win.. and the life you are about to start, is the perfect happy ending for everything you had to live through. Go, my dear.. Enjoy your life.. All the very best… I will miss you, your friends will miss you and we all will remember you in very fond memories… Farewell! 🙂
P.S. As a parting gift, Aisha wrote a farewell article for me which absolutely touched my heart, readers can find the article here: https://tinyurl.com/26hf9vjkWith love, Dauntless
JohnnyBravo: Aisha is a person like an onion, the more u peel it off, the more u will feel like it was better not to have done that .. kidding :d She is a wonderful person despite her moody nature she is a strong, brave and a lovable person and a friend of friends, I wish her all the best in her life especially when she is starting a new journey of her life may she be blessed with a happier, healthier and a successful life.
WickedyWitch: Mari loves her friends fiercely and we return the favour because we’re all absolutely terrified not to. I kid, I kid. I adore Mari because she’s the most honest person on irc that I’ve ever met and all I ever get from her is compassion and an absolute lack of judgment that makes our friendship singularly unique. ❤️💜💚💙💛🧡 you, kitty kat
Flawsome: My first interacrtion with aisha was when she started teaching me onu…she is one sweet charming and thoughtful person…i feel very comfortable talking to her….ive had limited interaction with her…but suljhi hui larki….is wat best describes her.
Hassan: Barak Allahu Laka Wa Baraka Alaika Wa Jama Aa Bainakuma Fi Khair” (May ALLAH Bless You & Shower His Blessings On You & ALLAH Unite You Both In Goodness)
Laadla: I know aisha from last five years. She is fun, angry, touchy, aggressive, having sensitive heart with a strong CHARACTER! These are few things i really admire about her! I really like her reserved kinda attitude! SHE IS BEAST HAVING BEAUTY WITH BRAIN!
Salaar: Well, aisha was, is n will b a mystery to me but we did share couple of channels and had couple of genuine sober conversations. Humans make images of people in their minds, I did same and for me she was quite respectable, sensible n mature girl. Wish her very best for her life ahead!
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Question: Tell me something about yourself. Ideally, something which is not common knowledge.
Answer: I am a suicide survivor! (rest of the information withheld by author)
Question: What made you join IRC? And why do you use it?
Answer: uno. Aur kuch hota e ni krne ko
Question: If you had to change your nick, what would your new name be, and why would you choose that nick?
Answer: Error 404. No specific reason. Bs psnd ha mujhe
Question: Do you prefer being anonymous on IRC? If Yes, Why?
Answer: No, I don’t..my friends know all possible details about me .chat channels mai guest nicks se join krti to read chat
Question: Rumour has it that you keep most people on ignore, even the ones who haven’t even spoken to you before (myself being a victim once), how do you explain that?
Answer: I do that to protect my emotional health as I cant take any negative comment and I think es mai kuch bura ni ..jhagra krne se behter ha ap ignore mai add kr do
Question: Is there any channel on IRC you want completely destroyed? If yes, why?
Question: Who on IRC do you like/dislike the most? One nick for each.
Answer: I like sonizz most and dislike k liye I have to share my ignore list 🤣… Dislike: Kitab (meri os se kbhi bat ni hui na koi personal lrai ha but jitna osko read kiya ha I don’t like her)
Question: Who is the person whom you wish you had met in RL, not through IRC?
Answer: Known and sonizz
Question: Who is the person you think about when you are not on IRC?
Answer: I don’t think about anyone specifically.. I think about the conversations, arguments and fights. Some good conversations, some fights i have with friends like i fought with you, i kept thinking about it. Stuff like that
Question: What’s your worst memory from IRC?
Answer: My fight with mistaken. We fought over a guy, he was her crush and mai ghlti se osko kheer ki pic send kr di thi .. mistaken ko lgta ha sending someone your kheer pic is equivalent to marriage proposal
Question: What is the hottest (Most Catchy) nick you find on IRC? What is the least attractive nick?
Answer: mujhe names wale nicks achay lgte, like Fatima, Omer, Ahmed…..least attractive mahir or any nick with this ^ sign
Question: What was the weirdest conversation you have overheard on IRC?
Answer: I read Hassan telling someone on #bahawalpur that he divorced his wife ..yh weird se ziada low level and cheap conversation lgi thi …ghar ki khawateen ko aise discuss ni krna chahiye
Question: After 10 years, when/if you are gone from IRC, what you will be most nostalgic about?
Question: What is the most interesting activity imaginable on IRC?
Answer: Video Calls / Ya phr koi aisa bot hona chahiye jo lie detector ho and jo jhoot bolay automatically kick ho jaye
Question: What was the most uncomfortable thing you’ve had to do out of politeness on IRC?
Answer: Removing Beparwah from my ignore list and talk to him/her
Question: If you go back in past, which one thing you would like to change in your IRC history?
Answer: Sharing my pics with volox
Question: First think of a product. Which person on IRC can you associate with it the most?
Answer: Product: Steel wool , Association: Abusers Opal… Btw mera en muhtram se kbhi pala ni para but mai #lahore pe enko abusing krte dekha ha
Question: Name your IRC crush, if any?
Answer: Answer withheld by respondent 😉
Question: You’re getting married and will leave IRC as you have claimed. who are you going to miss the most?
Answer: Sonizz and you 😀 Yh aik miracle ha .. Mai kbhi ni socha tha . Life is unpredictable
Question: Who is your role model in RL?
Answer: My father. He is simple, courageous and he taught me never give up
Question: Which person In the world knows you the best?
Answer: My Khala, I was raised by her and my grandparents
Question: What would your friends say about you?
Answer: I don’t know what they say about me behind my back ..but laadla calls me honorable friend, wickedywitch calls me pure, you call me rude And sonizz calls me cute
Question: What is the question people ask you most often?
Answer: Why I talk like a 5 years old kid?
Question: Which one of the following, you’d never say to another person? A. Comment on their looks, B. Comment on Their Personal Lives, C. Comment on their careers, D. Shout at them!
Answer: Mostly I don’t comment of any of them but A
Question: What is your greatest achievement?
Answer: Bouncing back from suicide!
Question: What is your greatest failure?
Answer: I couldn’t complete my LLB, And then my suicide attempt
Question: What did you learn from your greatest failure?
Answer: Fight back, speak up, no one can eat me
Question: What is the thing you’re most proud of?
Answer: I am not proud of anything
Question: What would you like to change about yourself?
Question: If something in your house breaks, what is the first thing you do? A. Try to fix it urself, B. Call a professional C. Call a friend D. Ignore it cuz its not ur problem
Question: What is the greatest obstacle you’re facing right now?
Answer: Alhumdulilah none 😀 (not anymore)
Question: How do you like to “waste” your time?
Answer: I play uno nonstop
Question: When you are stressed, what is the ritual that helps you calm down? A warm bath? Sports? Work? Talking to a friend?
Answer: A warm bath, I avoid talking everyone including friends
Question: What was the happiest period of your life?
Answer: My childhood
Question: What is your most treasured memory from childhood?
Answer: Sleeping with my grandma, Mai un k arm ko hug kr k soti thi zor se
Question: What is the greatest injustice you’ve lived through?
Answer: 2017 se 2019 tk ka time period bht tough and crucial tha. Es time period mai bht si na insaafiya hui. (My suicide attempt was used as a scapegoat for everything i woud do).
Question: If you have to choose between getting caught on a date and getting expelled from the university in final semester, which would you prefer?
Question: Have you ever been in love?
Question: If you have to choose between running into your ex with your husband, and running into your husband’s ex while you’re with him, which one would you prefer and why?
Answer: Obviously running into my husband’s ex
Question: If you have to choose between forgetting your speech in front of a crowd and getting caught cheating in an exam, which will you choose and why?
Answer: Dono e embarrassing situations hun gi .. forgetting my speech in front of crowd …es ko accept kr ln gi ku k mai under-confident hun
Question: If you have to choose between a man with a bad breath/odor and a man with bad dressing sense, which one would you choose?
Answer: Bad dressing sense
Question: If you have to choose between getting caught while cheating on your spouse and catching your spouse cheating on you, which one would you prefer?
Question: If you have to choose between being a ruthless morally insane predator, or a helpless miserable prey, which one would you be?
Question: If you had to choose between being the most brilliant and famous woman in the world but staying single forever, and being the most ordinary woman whom no one would care to remember but having the most satiating romantic life, which one would you prefer?
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|Laadla||7||achi friendship thi, time k sath fade ho gai|
|Salaar||5||not so good, not so bad|
|la`pple||6||don’t KNOW MUCH ABOUT HER|
|Cupid||minus 1||Zehr lagta hai, don’t know why|
|Miico||6||She is cute and overly dramatic|
|flawsome||6||Cute and Jhalli|
|Meow_||5||She is ok|
|LikeICare||2||7UP K AD KA CARTOON|
|Racer||4||LOOK AT ME, LOOK AT ME|
|Blackcat||7||She is cute|
|Diamond||3||Self respect ki shadeed kami hai|
|Marlboroman||7||humble, intellectual and neutral|
|Rathore||N/A||Don’t know him|
|Nazia||N/A||don’t know her|
|Rabia||N/A||I don’t like Rabia|
|WebUser||N/A||Don’t know her|
|Revenge`||7||Humble and quiet|
|Jaded||N/A||I don’t know him|